Don’t focus on how you’re about to try to squirt – focus on being present with what you’re doing now. Really connect to the sensations you’re feeling and your own potential for pleasure.
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Whether you’re trying to squirt alone or with a partner, spend some time getting aroused and engaged. Be creative with your comfort and give yourself the space to get messy without getting stuck in your head. If you don’t have one, extra towels – lots of towels – over your bedding is a great start. If you have one, put down a Liberator Throe – the water-resistant interior should protect your bed or other surfaces (plus, it’s machine washable). How Do I Do That?įirst, give yourself room to relax with a little preparation. Similarly, if your partner squirted and you thought it was weird and that’s why you’re here today, welcome to Team Squirt.
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Congratulations! If you’ve squirted and your partner isn’t into it, it’s worth having a conversation about why. While it’s up to an individual’s lived experience to know for sure, squirting is usually a sign that someone is experiencing an intense amount of sexual pleasure. But that’s because we live in a society that doesn’t see female pleasure as a universal good. Some people with vaginas can experience a sense of shame around the way our bodies experience and show pleasure. It is not only totally normal to squirt, it’s totally hot. When you stimulate it enough during sex, squirting, or orgasms – they’re separate! – can sometimes be the result. The urethral sponge, more commonly known as the G-spot, is a clump of erectile tissue located about two inches inside the vagina on the front wall (the side with your navel) that swells during arousal. What Role Does The G-Spot Have In Squirting? Instead, what’s important about all of this, as I’m talking about it here, is lived experience and sexual enjoyment.
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That means that what’s important about the G-spot isn’t what researchers say about it, or what studies say about the role it has in squirting, or whether squirting exists, or what liquid it’s made of, or whether squirting and female ejaculation even happens, and if so if the fluid involved is urine or chemically similar to urine. There is simply the all-important and yet literally unremarkable orgasm.” One side effect of this approach to examining female sexuality, Rowland argues, is that the focus has shifted away from what is actually important: embodiment and pleasure. “While researchers have cataloged the form, frequency, and verity of women’s orgasms – clitoral, vaginal, G-spot, faked – no typology exists for male pleasure. Rowland writes that science often over-generalizes male sexuality and over-specifies female sexuality. In The Pleasure Gap, Katherine Rowland writes: “the G-spot: to some essential, to others its very existence hangs in doubt.” Why? According to Somjag Pokras and Jeffre Talltrees, authors of Female Ejaculation: Unleash the Ultimate G-spot Orgasm, there are references to it that span thousands of years, including in Aristotle’s work, Shunga art from sixteenth-century Japan, and Shakespeare’s musings on “the water of my love.” Still, the place of the G-spot – which is related to gushing – in contemporary sexuality is debated. However you think about it, gushing is not new. Is there any subject around women’s sexuality more contentious than squirting? Probably! But squirting, female ejaculation, and even whether or not those refer to the same occurrence or two different ones, have been contentious for decades. Just a quick note about language: because science isn’t great with words around gender, in this post I’m going to use the words “female anatomy.” You and I both know that lots of people with vulvas and vaginas are not women, and that lots of women do not have vaginas or vulvas.